
Hi, I'm Suzette Vearnon
On December 27, 2014 on my 55th birthday, I did something that statistics would not have predicted. I got married to the most wonderful man. It wasn't my looks, my charms or my savvy dating that did it. It was that after 49 years of being on this Earth it was no longer okay for me to perform for a man's affections. With this realization came a startling revelation. I didn't know how not to perform.
You see, I was taught that love = performance. If you performed well, people loved you. If you didn't, they didn't. So it was difficult for me to grasp a love I didn't have to earn.
Yet, something inside of me knew that I had to do love differently if I was ever going to have a chance at it. And because I learned how, it is my passion and purpose to help you to do it too.
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REALationship TALK Tuesdays with Suzette is a weekly LIVE venue where Suzette simulcasts from both Facebook and Instagram Live that focuses on what she wishes someone had told her about relationships before she thought she knew better.
What's your Enough Factor, your special "It" Factor that makes you enough to attract great love. With this podcast, Suzette ventures into waters often uncharted by high achievers and modern women and that is their inherent enoughness. Each episode challenges the issues of life and of love that leave one to question, "Am I enough?" and if so, "Why?"
Suzette Vearnon's Love On Your Terms Masterclass, a multiday online event where high achieving women over 40 discover what makes them enough and their worthiness to have love on their terms.
Is Life Calling You To A Bigger Stage? A diverse group of men and women of different backgrounds and races gathered in the elegant Clayton Center Auditorium for I AM ENOUGH "LIVE", November 17, 2019, headlined by Suzette Vearnon.
Suzette Vearnon sharing insights with attendees at her self-hosted CONFRONT YOUR VALLEY Seminar/Workshop at Craze Beauty Boutique in Clayton NC
Second in her #2020Vision series was DOING LOVE DIFFERENTLY. With her workshop, Suzette encouraged high achieving women to end self betrayal, learn to trust themselves again and stop attracting Mr. Wrongs into their lives.
Testimonials
She Is Amazing
Suzette has given me some profound insights which have reshaped how I look at myself, who I attract, and who I accept into my life. She is amazing!”…Suzette has given me some profound insights which have reshaped how I look at myself, who I attract, and who I accept into my life. She is amazing!”Melissa D.
Exceptional, Knowledgeable and Enlightened
Suzette by far is an exceptional, knowledgeable and enlightened instructor, coach and mentor. …Suzette by far is an exceptional, knowledgeable and enlightened instructor, coach and mentor. Not only is she in tuned with the needs and obstacles facing women over 40 she also possesses the sensitivity, tools and resources needed to overcome each of those obstacles. All there’s left for you to do is DO THE WORK especially if you want to see true change and love manifest in your life! Thank you Suzette for your labor of love and your willingness to reach back and pull others up and into the possibilities of true love. You are truly the Love Catalyst and I have learned so much from you, your life and your teachings. You have certainly made a difference in my life. Keep Shining Bright, My Sister and Friend.Tina W.
I Found My Voice Again
Post-divorce, I didn’t like my life as a single woman. I hated coming home to an empty house and resented …When I approached Suzette about coaching me, I felt a lack of motivation. As I am normally an upbeat person, I found this puzzling. I’d have moments of enjoyment with family and my close circle of friends but when I’d get in my car to drive home, I would feel dread. Post-divorce, I didn’t like my life as a single woman. I hated coming home to an empty house and resented the burden of managing the things my husband use to. I was also exhausted from other relationship losses that followed. I felt drained. My coaching sessions with Suzette opened me up to a new level of awareness about myself and life. Through this experience, I have learned that joy and happiness in life is accomplished by “emotional awareness”. Suzette did an awesome job of working with me so I could relearn how to give myself a voice again and experience the feelings necessary, whether good or bad feelings, to cleanse my heart and revive my soul. Armed with a plan and a toolkit of coping strategies, I am owning my truth, rediscovering my love of playing the piano, exploring volunteer opportunities and getting back into the dating scene. As for the house, I do what I can and delegate the rest. In just 6 sessions, I feel inspired and excited about my future. I strongly recommend Suzette to anyone who needs help figuring out what’s not working in their lives and how to create something that does.Gloria M.
She Had All Of Us Mesmerized
Suzette was so inspiring–she had all of us mesmerized with her words of strength and encouragement. …Suzette Vearnon was a guest motivational speaker at a women’s healing workshop I conducted on April 22 and April 23, 2016, in Dulles, Virginia. Women from around the world gathered to learn how to become whole again. Suzette was so inspiring–she had all of us mesmerized with her words of strength and encouragement. We had four different speakers, but she was truly the highlight of the day. I highly recommend her to any venue that needs a speaker to inspire, strengthen, and rebuild self-esteem and strength.Bonnie K.
From The PRLog Press Room
- Life Coach and Relationship Solutionist is Helping Women Over 40 Redefine Love On Their Terms August 14, 2022Women over 40 are the most underestimated and underserved population by the romance industry. Yet, they are the most motivated to experience something real in their love relationships.
- Thirteen Men Give Women The 4-1-1 On Men and Relationships July 28, 2017"You don't need everybody, just the right somebody...later y'all," says Relationship Solutionist Suzette Vearnon, signaling the end of another compelling interview for You Asked? Good Men Answered! Third Annual Virtual Summit.
- Gspot Author and Statistics Be Darned Founder Launches City-to-City Tour April 10, 2017Showing High Performing Professional Women Their Super Power To Have Great Love
- Statistics Be Darned Redefining Valentine's Day For Single Women Over 30 February 13, 2017Four lucky women will have a special delivery of flowers delivered to their door. Who will they be? We talked with Suzette Vearnon, Leader of Statistics Be Darned's community of women and organizer of this event.
- Post Election Event Will Change Your Relationship With Money January 7, 2017The question being asked around kitchen tables and boardroom tables alike is what's going to happen?
- Good Men Expose What Bad Men Will Never Tell You At Upcoming Summit June 24, 2016Is he a King, a Prince or a Fool? You Asked? Good Men Answered! Second Annual Virtual Summit has assembled good men who are ready to answer that question.
- A Super Tuesday for Single Women Over 30 March 2, 2016What would make this a Super Tuesday? Trump, Cruz, Rubio, Clinton or Sanders getting the lion's share of delegates to be the frontrunner of their respective political parties? Sure, a win is what they all want; but only one will get their...
- Are You A Heart-Connected Relater? October 10, 2015Statistics Be Darned Founder, Suzette Vearnon is pleased to announce the KICKOFF of the 2nd ENOUGH Virtual Workshop. The workshop is for women who are ready to become heart-connected relaters.
- Statistics Be Darned! Campaign Is Taking It To The Streets July 10, 2015"For too long we ladies have complained, lamented over and blamed men for relationships gone bad," says Leader of the Statistics Be Darned! Campaign Suzette R. Vearnon.
- Author Suzette Launches STATISTICS BE DARNED Campaign May 26, 2015Disproving the statistics that regarded her too old, too educated and too African American to find love, Author Suzette Hinton now Mrs. Vearnon married the love of her life on a Spring-like December afternoon on her 55th birthday.