
Hi, I'm Suzette Vearnon
On December 27, 2014 on my 55th birthday, I did something that statistics would not have predicted. I got married to the most wonderful man. It wasn't my looks, my charms or my savvy dating that did it. It was that after 49 years of being on this Earth it was no longer okay for me to perform for a man's affections. With this realization came a startling revelation. I didn't know how not to perform.
You see, I was taught that love = performance. If you performed well, people loved you. If you didn't, they didn't. So it was difficult for me to grasp a love I didn't have to earn.
Yet, something inside of me knew that I had to do love differently if I was ever going to have a chance at it. And because I learned how, it is my passion and purpose to help you to do it too.
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REALationship TALK Tuesdays with Suzette is a weekly LIVE venue where Suzette simulcasts from both Facebook and Instagram Live that focuses on what she wishes someone had told her about relationships before she thought she knew better.
What's your Enough Factor, your special "It" Factor that makes you enough to attract great love. With this podcast, Suzette ventures into waters often uncharted by high achievers and modern women and that is their inherent enoughness. Each episode challenges the issues of life and of love that leave one to question, "Am I enough?" and if so, "Why?"
Suzette Vearnon's Love On Your Terms Masterclass, a multiday online event where high achieving women over 40 discover what makes them enough and their worthiness to have love on their terms.
Is Life Calling You To A Bigger Stage? A diverse group of men and women of different backgrounds and races gathered in the elegant Clayton Center Auditorium for I AM ENOUGH "LIVE", November 17, 2019, headlined by Suzette Vearnon.
Suzette Vearnon sharing insights with attendees at her self-hosted CONFRONT YOUR VALLEY Seminar/Workshop at Craze Beauty Boutique in Clayton NC
Second in her #2020Vision series was DOING LOVE DIFFERENTLY. With her workshop, Suzette encouraged high achieving women to end self betrayal, learn to trust themselves again and stop attracting Mr. Wrongs into their lives.
Testimonials
I Like Your Transparency
I really liked that you opened with what I could expect to learn. This focused my attention and put me on the hunt for the information you have.I always like your transparency and vulnerability about your personal life. I think it lends a level of credibility that pulls everything else together. You use illustrations that…I really liked that you opened with what I could expect to learn. This focused my attention and put me on the hunt for the information you have.I always like your transparency and vulnerability about your personal life. I think it lends a level of credibility that pulls everything else together. You use illustrations that last in my head...I'll remember turtleing and learning to manage the clutch/gas pedal.
Sheila Tampa, FL
It Deepened My Understanding
Just finished watching all 5 videos and really enjoyed learning more about men. It has definitely deepen my understanding of the opposite sex.Just finished watching all 5 videos and really enjoyed learning more about men. It has definitely deepen my understanding of the opposite sex.
Karishma Australia
Wish I had this in my early 20’s
Omg Suzette!!! This is sooo good! This information is golden. Wish I had it in my early 20s. I’ve learned so much and I’m not even to the end of it. Very refreshing and delivered in such a loving way. The entire time my thought process - oh I hope she’s writing a book about…Omg Suzette!!! This is sooo good! This information is golden. Wish I had it in my early 20s. I’ve learned so much and I’m not even to the end of it. Very refreshing and delivered in such a loving way. The entire time my thought process - oh I hope she’s writing a book about this one day. I know friends who are struggling in the dating phase & need information like this.
Rennes
The Workshop Was So Good I Attended Twice
My experience of the Enough Virtual Workshop was so amazing that I had to experience it not once, but TWICE. …My experience of the Enough Virtual Workshop was so amazing that I had to experience it not once, but TWICE. And if I ever felt like going for the third base, I would do it again. It is a well put together virtual workshop that heightens the awareness of self, brings clarity to the blind spots that could be holding you back from experiencing the love you desire, it empowers you to make better choices, and to no longer settle. What I loved most about the Workshop is how our beautiful facilitator/coach (Suzette Vearnon) made us feel throughout every session. It is a judge-free, shaming and guilt-free Workshop. Our coach made us feel at home and very comfortable about sharing our past experiences with dating and relationships. The Enough Virtual Workshop is not about male bashing. It shifts your perspective from blaming men for past failed relationships, and it empowers you to take responsibility for the way you allow men to treat you. Owning our power is celebrated as well as celebrating good men. Last but not least, you will walk away from the Enough Virtual Workshop remembering that You are enough and worthy to receive and give love. It opens you up to the possibility that there is someone perfectly tailored made to love you for You! My life has changed so much since taking this workshop and so has my relationship with men. Dating is now fun and I am attracting men who are relationship-ready!Andrenee B.
From The PRLog Press Room
- Life Coach and Relationship Solutionist is Helping Women Over 40 Redefine Love On Their Terms August 14, 2022Women over 40 are the most underestimated and underserved population by the romance industry. Yet, they are the most motivated to experience something real in their love relationships.
- Thirteen Men Give Women The 4-1-1 On Men and Relationships July 28, 2017"You don't need everybody, just the right somebody...later y'all," says Relationship Solutionist Suzette Vearnon, signaling the end of another compelling interview for You Asked? Good Men Answered! Third Annual Virtual Summit.
- Gspot Author and Statistics Be Darned Founder Launches City-to-City Tour April 10, 2017Showing High Performing Professional Women Their Super Power To Have Great Love
- Statistics Be Darned Redefining Valentine's Day For Single Women Over 30 February 13, 2017Four lucky women will have a special delivery of flowers delivered to their door. Who will they be? We talked with Suzette Vearnon, Leader of Statistics Be Darned's community of women and organizer of this event.
- Post Election Event Will Change Your Relationship With Money January 7, 2017The question being asked around kitchen tables and boardroom tables alike is what's going to happen?
- Good Men Expose What Bad Men Will Never Tell You At Upcoming Summit June 24, 2016Is he a King, a Prince or a Fool? You Asked? Good Men Answered! Second Annual Virtual Summit has assembled good men who are ready to answer that question.
- A Super Tuesday for Single Women Over 30 March 2, 2016What would make this a Super Tuesday? Trump, Cruz, Rubio, Clinton or Sanders getting the lion's share of delegates to be the frontrunner of their respective political parties? Sure, a win is what they all want; but only one will get their...
- Are You A Heart-Connected Relater? October 10, 2015Statistics Be Darned Founder, Suzette Vearnon is pleased to announce the KICKOFF of the 2nd ENOUGH Virtual Workshop. The workshop is for women who are ready to become heart-connected relaters.
- Statistics Be Darned! Campaign Is Taking It To The Streets July 10, 2015"For too long we ladies have complained, lamented over and blamed men for relationships gone bad," says Leader of the Statistics Be Darned! Campaign Suzette R. Vearnon.
- Author Suzette Launches STATISTICS BE DARNED Campaign May 26, 2015Disproving the statistics that regarded her too old, too educated and too African American to find love, Author Suzette Hinton now Mrs. Vearnon married the love of her life on a Spring-like December afternoon on her 55th birthday.