Hi, I'm Suzette Vearnon

On December 27, 2014 on my 55th birthday, I did something that statistics would not have predicted.  I got married to the most wonderful man.  It wasn't my looks, my charms or my savvy dating that did it.  It was that after 49 years of being on this Earth it was no longer okay for me to perform for a man's affections.  With this realization came a startling revelation. I didn't know how not to perform.

You see, I was taught that love = performance.  If you performed well, people loved you.  If you didn't, they didn't.  So it was difficult for me to grasp a love I didn't have to earn.

Yet, something inside of me knew that I had to do love differently if I was ever going to have a chance at it.  And because I learned how, it is my passion and purpose to help you to do it too.

Here are some media highlights...



REALationship TALK Tuesdays with Suzette is a weekly LIVE venue where Suzette simulcasts from both Facebook and Instagram Live that focuses on what she wishes someone had told her about relationships before she thought she knew better.

What's your Enough Factor, your special "It" Factor that makes you enough to attract great love.  With this podcast, Suzette ventures into waters often uncharted by high achievers and modern women and that is their inherent enoughness.  Each episode challenges the issues of life and of love that leave one to question, "Am I enough?" and if so, "Why?"

Suzette Vearnon's Love On Your Terms Masterclass, a multiday online event where high achieving women over 40  discover what makes them enough and their worthiness to have love on their terms.

Is Life Calling You To A Bigger Stage?  A diverse group of men and women of different backgrounds and races gathered in the elegant Clayton Center Auditorium for I AM ENOUGH "LIVE", November 17, 2019, headlined by Suzette Vearnon.

Suzette Vearnon sharing insights with attendees at her self-hosted CONFRONT YOUR VALLEY Seminar/Workshop at Craze Beauty Boutique in Clayton NC

Second in her #2020Vision series was DOING LOVE DIFFERENTLY.  With her workshop, Suzette encouraged high achieving women to end self betrayal, learn to trust themselves again and stop attracting Mr. Wrongs into their lives.


I had done self work singularly, but you helped me to do it relationally

When I first heard about relationship coaching, I thought it was learning to basically be an actress. I didn't want that. But this is not that. It's taking the self work I'd done singularly and teaching me how to do it relationally. It's been good. I tapped into a realm that I have never known…

Alesha Puckett Atlanta, GA

I was kind of lost in the self help world

When I came to my SOS Session with Suzette, I was kind of lost in the self-help world, looking for direction in the wake of my divorce and sexual assault. Within the first five minutes of the coaching session, I had already experienced an Ah Ha! moment when Suzette asked me why I was putting…

Shannon Nova Scotia, Canada

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I think she saved my life!

I found Suzette’s coaching session very helpful and insightful. She unlocked a new way of looking at relationships that is simple and immediately game changing from within. Suzette is very passionate and intuitive. I think she saved my life! People joke of a DJ saving their life, but Suzette does this in her coaching. As…

Thandiwe (Beloved in English) UK

I’ve become a better person

What can I say about Ms. Suzette?  I’ve never had counseling or coaching before and she made me realize how much I actually needed it.  She made me see what I was actually doing wrong all these years.  Here, I thought it was only the men I was dating.  (Men are weird creatures) I’m constantly…

Adrienne Baltimore, MD

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