About Your Host

Hi, I'm Suzette Vearnon.  On December 27, 2014 on my 55th birthday, I did something my Inner Critic would not have predicted.  I got married to the most wonderful man.  It wasn't because I was perfect!  It was because I was me!  The same me who was told I was not enough at times and I was too much at others.  I struggled for most of my adulthood because of it.  Oh how I could have used someone who could unlock for me what was such a mystery, that I was enough.

That's why I'm so excited about this podcast.  I get to give to you what I didn't get.  And because of that, it won't take you 55 years to get it right!   But if it has, it's  not too late.  Let's make sure that you don't spend one more moment not knowing that you are worthy, you are worth it, you are enough!!

Join me every Sunday for my Enough Factor Podcast!

S02-E17: Silent No More

Life is no longer the same and will never be what we once knew.  At first, I resisted it by trying to focus on my business and continuing with my goals.  I was managing it  - so I thought - until I saw a man die.  At that moment, everything changed.

This episode is about the urgency of this moment in time and in history: to stop being silent.  To stop giving canned responses when the urgency of the moment requires your voice.  To identify areas where you have been silent, therefore complicit in allowing hatred to be emboldened.

Suzette identifies four forms of silence that oftentimes go unnoticed.  They are:

  • The Silence of People Pleasing
  • The Silence of It's Their Problem
  • The Silence of Not Speaking Up
  • The Silence of Being Uncomfortable With Praise

Suzette goes deeply into the ways we become a non-factor because of our silence and why now is the time to be silent...no more.



For everything there is a season (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)

“It’s Okay To Not Be Okay” Episode with Germôna



If you have been silent in your relationships, you aren’t alone.  The most vocal of women have lost themselves in someone else’s definition and someone else’s script.

Becoming knowledgeable and learning how to apply that knowledge is the best way to change that.  It is with that in mind that I invite you to check out

DO YOU SPEAK MALE: The 5 C's of Understanding A Man's Language

DO YOU SPEAK MALE is a "course in unlearning" what you've heard about men, thought about men & your failed experiences with men by offering insights into a man's communication, code, culture, context & conduct: the 5C's that make up a man's language.  With this information, you gain the tools to break the cycle of failed relationships and attract healthy love into your life.

Check it out at https://bit.ly/hislanguage.



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