About Your Host

Hi, I'm Suzette Vearnon.  On December 27, 2014 on my 55th birthday, I did something my Inner Critic would not have predicted.  I got married to the most wonderful man.  It wasn't because I was perfect!  It was because I was me!  The same me who was told I was not enough at times and I was too much at others.  I struggled for most of my adulthood because of it.  Oh how I could have used someone who could unlock for me what was such a mystery, that I was enough.

That's why I'm so excited about this podcast.  I get to give to you what I didn't get.  And because of that, it won't take you 55 years to get it right!   But if it has, it's  not too late.  Let's make sure that you don't spend one more moment not knowing that you are worthy, you are worth it, you are enough!!

Join me every Sunday for my Enough Factor Podcast!

S02-E11 What Does A Man Look Like?


What does a man look like?  June is “The Month of the Man” and it’s my pleasure to welcome John A. McDonald II to Enough Factor Podcast.  Described as a tie-loathing adventurer, philanthropist & entrepreneur who turns ideas into reality, it’s hard to believe that he spent so much of his life not knowing who he was. He resented his mom and was angry with his dad for it.  To this day, he doesn't know who his father is.  His story sadly is one that is shared by so many Men of Color in this country.

Rather than applying a stereotypical expectation on John of the "black boy without a father", I wanted you to hear his story and the Truth of his identify that found him when he was at his lowest point.

In our candid conversation, John talks about:

  • The powerlessness of growing up without a father and how young men try to mask it.
  • The origins of anger and rage
  • A very real encounter with Divinity
  • Tapping into a truth that is bigger than your current circumstance

…and much more.

This man’s life is nothing short of a miracle. 

If you are feeling scared, angry, triggered by the events going on in the world, this episode is a reminder that you on a collision course with a Purpose bigger than you can imagine.


John’s Facebook


John’s Twitter


John Instagram



This episode is brought to you by:  

DO YOU SPEAK MALE: The 5 C's of Understanding A Man's Language

DO YOU SPEAK MALE is a "course in unlearning" what you've heard about men, thought about men & your failed experiences with men by offering insights into a man's communication, code, culture, context & conduct: the 5C's that make up a man's language.

If you're a NEXT-Level woman ready to UP-Level your relationships, go to
https://bit.ly/hislanguage and find out more.



To get notifications of new episodes or to dive more deeply into today's episode, subscribe, post your questions and comments.  Suzette responds to the questions and comments personally.  And while you're at it, leave a review.

Thank you for listening!



Music by DH The Composer https://linktr.ee/dhthecomposer

Cover Design by Odyssey Administrative Services, LLC https://www.facebook.com/odysseyadministrativeservices

Photo from the gallery of royalty free photo options on Pixteller.com

Want To Be A Guest?

Got something inspired to share with our listeners?  Be a guest on our show!


♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦

"How Dating Mr. Wrong Led Me To Mr. Right"