If your experience of love is not what you want it to be, then maybe it's time to do love differently.
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"The call isn't to do more. It's to be more!"
I was the first to graduate from college, get a second degree and a coaching certification. I was the first to become an entrepreneur and later a business owner. I was the first to get married again after divorce, and then to have a second divorce, and then to get married a third time! I think this third's a keeper!! And while I've coached others who, like me, are driven to set goals and achieve them, I've always sensed a deeper need stoking their urgency.
For a long time, I've believed, like Oprah, that the core of that need was to feel seen, to feel heard and to feel that they matter. But there is a deeper need still. It's the need to know who you are and why you are enough.
That's why my coaching had to change!
It had to shift from "How I Changed The Way I Dated And Got The Man" to What Is Your Enough Factor? It had to shift from how-to's and should-I's to removing the L.I.D.S. that keep you from attracting great love in your life. It had to shift from merely getting you from here to there as quickly as possible to helping you resolve the valley in between. It had to shift from an outcome to in-come. Your relationship with yourself!
You see, I realized that unless I helped you connect with your enoughness, your happiness with getting the man would be momentary and having the life you desire would not bring you fulfillment.
There are 3 critical factors to your enoughness...
It's YOU expressed in words. Your essence. Your verge. Your dash. Your way of looking at things. Your way of being in the world. Silencing not only erases your voice. It erases you.
It's YOU expressed in currency. It's the value you place on yourself. It's the stuff that standards are made of. While worth is what someone is willing to pay, your value is not contingent on that. It is what you say.
It's both YOU recognized and You recognizing what's yours. While dreams can be shaped by externals like "I'll have what she's having," visions are insight-driven. They are Divine awakenings to who you are and why you are.
Will You Answer The Call?
Typically, a call will ring 3-5 times on your cell before it drops or goes to voice mail.
If it's someone who want to hear from, you pick up on the first ring.
If you're not sure, you'll waffle between "Shall I answer? Shall I not?"
Sometimes you grab it before the last ring. Other times, you don't.
This is what I've come to know about Life. Life is persistent and downright ruthless!
It'll call, quietly at first. But then the call gets louder and louder and before you know it,
Life will pull the plug on all your excuses. It'll remove every crutch and say, "Can you hear me now?"
If you've read this far, Life has turned up the heat and you're suffering. You are really suffering.
...You're suffering to the point that it is hard to keep your face together.
...You're suffering to the point that you can no longer deny it.
...You're tired of living a mediocre life (even if everyone around you is impressed)
...You're tired of pretending to be okay when it takes everything inside of you not to burst into tears
...You're tired of suffering for love, suffering in love or suffering no love
YOU WANT TO LIVE!
If that's you, I've got some good news! You can click the button below and get off the treadmill
of failed relationships & mediocre living!
You Can Take Center Stage In Your Life!
That's the good news!
The bad news is most folks will talk themselves out of it.
You see, they still have a hidden contingency. It can't cost but this much.
It can't take up but so much of their time. It can't alter their lives in any way.
If that's you, then don't click the button.
But if . . .
RING #1 ))) The bigger stage is calling you
RING #2 ))) You can no longer deny that you want more
RING #3 ))) The call won't let you rest
RING #4 ))) The call is intensifying and so is the suffering because of it
RING #5 ))) You've been praying for things to change
and something deep that you can't explain knows this is your answer
Then, it's the 5th ring. It's a collect call! Will you accept the charges?